Freedom can be the first thing you notice
Safety and independence in everyday life can reset what feels possible, long before anything else about the move settles.
Bennu by Flux Forward
Chapter Two · Episode 04
A Step Towards Freedom
Shivangi Dhakad reflects on moving from India to the Netherlands, freedom, belonging, identity, community, and learning to build a life between cultures.
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NavigationHow you find your way through unfamiliar systems, choices, and routes.
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A Step Towards Freedom
Why this conversation still matters
In this episode of Bennu by Flux Forward, Ben Brink and Charline Baker-Friesen speak with Shivangi Dhakad, Senior Data, ML & GenAI Leader, about moving from India to the Netherlands, finding freedom, and learning what it means to build a life between cultures.
Shivangi shares how an unexpected opportunity brought her from Bangalore to Amsterdam, and how her first experience of the city changed the way she thought about freedom, safety, and possibility. She also reflects on the harder parts of living abroad: missing family, food, language, rituals, and the sense of community she grew up with.
The conversation also explores how moving countries changed her relationship with work, ambition, and identity. Over time, she learned to slow down, make more space for life outside work, and accept that both India and the Netherlands can feel like home.
Shivangi also talks about the pressure to fit in, the value of staying open to a new culture without losing your own identity, and why belonging is less about labels and more about being able to be yourself.
Topics in this episode include:
- moving from India to the Netherlands
- freedom, safety, and cultural adjustment
- family, community, and belonging
- work, ambition, and slowing down
- identity and living between two homes
- fitting in without losing yourself
- trust, friendship, and building community
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Shivangi Dhakad
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What the episode reveals.
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Your experience becomes easier to use when you can name what it shows.
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Main thing to notice
Navigation
How you find your way through unfamiliar systems, choices, and routes.
Related skill or context
Translation
How your experience becomes understandable to other people.
Context
Context matters
Shivangi Dhakad reflects on moving from India to the Netherlands, freedom, belonging, identity, community, and learning to build a life between cultures.
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Look for one conversation, one clearer explanation, or one better example that would make the next step easier to act on.
How this story maps into activation.
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Navigation
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Read: How activation actually happensWhat this means in everyday life
This conversation is about what moving countries actually changes: your sense of freedom, your relationship with work, and what you are willing to give up in order to fit in.
What you miss is specific
Family, food, language, and rituals are not small details. They are the parts of home that a new country does not replace on its own.
Ambition can be renegotiated
Moving can change how much space work takes. Slowing down is not losing ground, and life outside work is allowed to matter.
Belonging is not a label
Fitting in and belonging are different things. Staying open to a new culture does not require giving up your own.
Everyday question
Everyday question: what part of yourself have you been quietly setting aside in order to fit in, and what would it take to stop?
What this conversation reveals.
A Step Towards Freedom looks at migration through what it changes inside a person rather than what it changes on paper. Shivangi Dhakad moved from Bangalore to Amsterdam on an opportunity she had not planned for, and the conversation follows what that opened up and what it cost.
What stands out
Freedom arrives early and physically. Walking through a city at night without calculating risk reframes what is possible, and that reframing spreads into work, ambition, and how much room life outside work is allowed to take. Alongside it sits a quieter loss: family, food, language, rituals, and a community that did not need to be built because it was already there.
Why it matters
Much of the advice given to internationals treats fitting in as the goal. Shivangi describes the pressure that creates, and the more workable position she reached instead: stay open to the culture you moved into without trading away the one you came from. Both India and the Netherlands can be home, and neither claim cancels the other.
Activation lens
The primary signal is Navigation. The route through a new country here is not procedural. It runs through trust, friendship, slowing down, and building community deliberately rather than waiting to be absorbed into one.
A question to carry
Where are you still adapting yourself to fit in, and what would change if belonging meant being able to be yourself instead?
Where to go next
Start with one small step from here. Check your situation, clarify your profile, explore the wider context, or keep following the stories.